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We had a birthday dinner with the family in the park on Monday. Yesterday Violet went to Barbie with her cousin, which was lovely. Not much sleep is going on in this apartment. I've reached the point where I need to put the schedule for the next 10 days on a legal pad. The move home, the birthday, the departure, the packing for our trip. Time keeps rolling on. I can say the alphabet backwards pretty fast.

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Mar. 7th, 2022 10:09 am
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Went for a long walk on the Muddy this AM. It tired me out to go more than 2 miles. I clearly need to bump it up. It was warm yesterday, up to 60. Much of the snow is melted and today it's in the 50's. The sun promises spring.

Honey and I walked in the Arboretum yesterday. At night we watched West Side Story again. It's I really like the new version. That Spielberg guy knows what he's doing. On Saturday night we went to the Coolidge to see short subject animation. They were very harsh and heavy. Unspeakable stuff and I'm very sorry we went. It was also scary to be in a small space with unmasked people eating popcorn. Not the most fun night out. Stayed up way too late afterwards drinking martinis and watching DISCO and Somebody Somewhere.

Still dealing with insurance stuff. What a pain. The insurance business is set up to NOT give you money. So thankful we had Jerry even though he drove us crazy. More money is on the way.

I received an invitation to Cooperstown from my cousin yesterday. The Texas cousin is coming and they want to see everyone. I'm not sure how to make it work with our schedule, car, COVID and work but it's intriguing. Happy to be included.

Things are speeding up. Not sure I can hold on to the carousel.

Mary Gavin

Mar. 16th, 2021 08:41 am
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This is my grandmother's birthday. Born Mary Frances Gavin in Rutland, VT in 1904. I always remembered her birthday because it was the day before St. Patrick's Day and she would get green and white flowers. I remember there was a little "Erin Go Bragh" sign in it one year and she explained to me what it meant. Having a little trip down genealogy lane today to look at my ancestors. On that side, it looks like my great, great grandfather, Martin Rohan of County Clare is my most recent Irish immigrant ancestor. Funny how it's so interesting to me now. I want to find out about all her siblings, scattered by a fire. I may have to sign up on one of the services and dig in. I also want to buy a butter dish, so middle age is a thing.

Finding out such interesting things, like she was 8 months pregnant when she got married. Like my father's grandfather lived on the same street as my mother's in Cooperstown. All roads lead back there, to Vermont, and on to the west of Ireland.

I had such vivid memories of making the beds with my grandmother because the Brewster house had those old woven bedspreads. Memory so tactile and intense. The past is very real to me, raised as I was by Edwardians.

I was thinking of the house in Brewster last night when I had trouble sleeping. I think we stayed too long. It wasn't a vacation, it really became a home to us. And because it's so much better than this, it's doubly painful.

Things move forward here. People are getting vaccinations but the British variant is rising. When will it ever end. When will we ever learn.
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My daughter has come home from camp. I didn't appreciate how unsettling it was until she came back. I missed  her of course but didn't realize it was disturbing us on a subconscious level. Our family was like a three-legged dog, running along but with a bit of a hitch in its step. Now it feels like we're on track again. We have more traffic in the bathroom, a little bit of bickering, and extra laundry but that's just right.

And they will go away in the summers and then to college and then...

Change is the only constant.

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